This video from Ummah Films is quite “famous”. Now while I agree that you should struggle to do your best in terms of hijab and being the best you can be, I also think its wrong to tell the sisters that are really trying and struggling to wear modest clothing but isnt really there yet, that what they wear is not hijab!
I mean for myself, it was a biiiiig step putting on my hijab. I had a big crisis about 4 to 6 months after starting to wear it, I really started to doubt. I was thinking about all the stuff I missed out on, and also many people around me was not very supportive. Most of my friends still don’t wear hijab, but for myself, I have gotten used to it, im happy with it, and I would not take it of. At the same time, I know im not perfect, and I don’t wear it perfect either. I love earrings, and although I cover all but face, feet and hands, you still see the tip of my ears with color coordinated earrings peeping out.
Thats my take. Like fasting, praying and everything else in life, the actions are different from one person to another. What comes easy for one person, can be close to impossible for another. We are not the ones to judge, only Allah knows our intentions.